This is not just a post. It’s a turning point…
(and yes, I’m terrified to be stepping this deeply into my calling - and out of my comfort zone)
70 to 80% of people who take their own lives are men.
And yet we live in a world that says men have it all.
Let’s sit with that for a moment…
For the last few years, I’ve been holding space for highly sensitive changemakers, guiding them toward truth, freedom, and deep authenticity. I’ve worked with women and men, almost equally. But recently, something’s been calling me - a quiet, yet undeniable, knowing.
It’s time to focus more clearly.
To serve more directly.
To speak into the silence where too many men are hiding.
And so I’m making a shift.
From now on, I’ll be focusing more deeply on supporting successful men who are struggling in love. Men who’ve ticked all the boxes -career, lifestyle, independence- but still feel lost, alone, and unfulfilled in their intimate relationships.
Not because they’re broken.
But because they were never shown how to build love that actually lasts!
And this has huge repercussion on us all, which I get into later in this post (and in the audio/video)
💔 Men Are Hurting (and Hiding It)
In a society that says men “have it all,” why are so many of them the ones falling apart in silence?
It’s not that men don’t care about love.
It’s that they were taught to hide it.
To perform. To be the rock. To never let the cracks show.
And those cracks?
They widen.
They hollow men out.
And then one day it’s too much.
“Someday life will crack you open
Overflow emotion
And the dam flood waters will burst.
Don’t flee the flood, it seeks the ocean.
For every motion is a sign
Of your beautiful thirst.”
- Me 😉
❤️🩹 I Was One of Those Men
For years I ghosted, blamed, performed my way through connection.
I couldn’t hold down a relationship. I was charming, but anxious. Emotionally available on the surface, avoidant underneath.
It wasn’t until I got radically honest with myself, ie: stopped running and started healing, that things shifted.
Now I’m nine years deep into a deeply loving partnership. Baby on the way. Still learning, still growing, but grounded.
And I know the path.
I’ve walked it. I’m frickin’ WALKING it!
And I’m ready to guide the men who are finally ready to show up.
🌀 Why This Shift Matters… for All of Us
If you’re a woman reading this, chances are you’ve seen this story play out.
You’ve loved a man who couldn’t fully meet you.
Who shut down, checked out, couldn’t let you in.
This shift isn’t just for the men.
It’s for the women who want to see the men they love finally come home to themselves.
It’s for the children growing up watching how their fathers love.
It’s for all of us, building a world of true connection.
Imagine a world where the men who have access to resources are showing up in service rather than extraction. Who are sharing from Wholeness rather than trying to fill their emptiness.
Can you imagine? I can!
Let’s go!
🎯 A Workshop for Men (A First Step in Changing Everything)
If you’re a man who’s crushed it in life, but still feels like love is a mystery you can’t crack, this is for you:
Crushing It in Life. Lost and Lonely in Love.
This is the first step.
A 90-minute experience for successful men who are ready to stop performing and start connecting.
It’s not therapy.
It’s not another “how to be a better man” blueprint.
It’s a space to finally breathe.
To be real.
To be witnessed.
And to get the tools you’ve been missing to build love that actually lasts.
🗓️ When: Sunday 4 May 2025
🔗 Sign up now: https://alreadyfree.me/men
You’ve gone it alone for long enough.
It’s time to reclaim real connection
🌊 Final thoughts
If this speaks to you -or someone you love- please share it.
The silent struggle ends here.
We rise together.
Thank you for being part of this journey.
More soon.
With love and courage,
Nathan
P.S.
If you read my last post (the one about the dreadlocked pixie, divine poetry, and finding my way back to God) then you already know this shift has been a long time coming.
That story cracked me open. This one is what’s pouring out.
And to those of you (especially you incredible women 🫵) who’ve been walking this path with me for years: I’m not going anywhere. This is just the next true step. If you’re feeling the call to work together, you’re always welcome to reach out.
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